Mrs Mom berkongsi tentang perkara ini setelah memperolehi DM daripada seseorang tentang tindakannya memuji “well done” kepada Ali setelah membuat membuat satu lukisan.
Ibu kepada tiga anak ini juga mengakui betapa pentingnya untuk memberikan motivasi kepada anak-anak menerusi kata-kata yang positif. Katanya well done ialah perkataan yang digemarinya dan digunakan kerap ketika berkomunikasi dengan anak-anak.
Mrs Mom juga berkongsi beberapa perkataan lain boleh digunakan untuk menaikkan semangat si kecil.
thefamily.uk I received this DM yesterday and I am so humbled by the kind words. But at the same time, it is also heartbreaking. I am not here to judge the parents coz I believe that every parent must have done the best for their children.
But I also believe that it is important for us parents to boost our children’s motivation with kind words. As you know, ‘well done’ is my favourite phrase and I use it more than a hundred times a day! And there are 1001 other things you can say to encourage your children, not just ‘well done’! Here are some of them:
#1. Good job! I’m very proud of you.
#2. Thank you for doing that – that’s very kind of you.
#3. Don’t give up, I believe you can do it!
#4. Thank you for listening. I really appreciate it!
#5. Don’t worry, I’ll always pray for you.
Last but not least, #6 I love you, I love you, I love you…and a million times more I LOVE YOU!
Well Done,
Mrs Mom